The following challenges are for you to help strengthen your marriage this week. You may switch days or even substitute some challenges yourself. The goal is to recommit and be thankful to God for your marriage.
Monday - For this day, resolve to demonstrate patience and to say nothing negative at all to your spouse. If the temptation arises, say nothing at all.
Tuesday - Do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness
Wednesday- Contact your spouse during the "work" part of the day. Ask how he or she is doing and if there is anything you can do for them.
Thursday- Think of a positive attribute of your spouse and tell him or her that you appreciate that characteristic.
Friday - Do something out of the ordinary today for your spouse - something that proves (to you and to them) that your love is based on your choice and nothing else. Examples: Wash her car, Buy or make his favorite dessert, fold the laundry. Demonstrate love to them for the sheer joy of being their partner in marriage.
Saturday - Pray for your spouse. Pray for God to show you ways to be a better Christ-like servant to your spouse. Ask the Holy Spirit to ask you how to do this, then take an action that God will give you during this time. OR/AND Think and pray about one of the greatest needs in your spouse's life right now. Is there a need that you could lift from your spouse? This maybe something that is long lasting so purpose yourself to follow through and meet a need for your spouse.
Sunday - Ask your spouse to pray with you together. Thank God for your marriage no matter if this is a good time or not. If not, ask God for forgiveness and show you ways how to love and respect your spouse.
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Celebrate your marriage! At 6pm, we will show the movie "Fireproof" It is a free movie and it will be shown at NorthWest Christian Church. We want you to come and celebrate with us! |
